Tips from David DeAngelo, author of the popular dating guide for men – Double Your Dating.
David’s first point about meeting women in bars or clubs makes a lot of sense: When you meet a woman in a bar or club, your conversation has to be exciting and entertaining from the very start.
When you’re on a first date for coffee or dinner, you can afford to have a boring moment or two. In a club or bar, you have to constantly increase her attraction for you or the next guy is gonna step in and swoop her from under your nose.
David’s #1 rule is to absolutely avoid routine topics at all costs.
The subjects of politics, religion, family, and work should probably be avoided.
I personally want to add that if you have a very interesting or impressive career that sparks good conversation, it might benefit you to mention it (as long as it flows with the conversation). But please, don't brag.
If you catch yourself having a boring moment, change the subject, and change it fast.
Techniques And Advice To Prevent Boredom
One thing you can do is to point out something funny in the club. It could be a guy trying to pick up a girl who's obviously not interested, a guy who you catch checking out your girl, or some lame wearing a dorky outfit.
You can pick out some funny looking dudes and tell her you’re going to set her up. Find a guy who has no rhythm on the dance floor or find some funny looking guys.
You can also put some pressure on her (in a smooth and funny way of course). Tell her you like funny women so she needs to entertain you with a funny story or joke.
You can also play little fun games that engage women.
“Favorites” is a little game where you go back and forth and ask each other your favorite things, like your favorite food, movies, vacation spots, etc.
You can spice it up by asking her about the craziest experience she's ever had in a nightclub or bar, or the most bizarre thing she’s ever done or witnessed.
Many times when you approach women in nightclubs or bars, they will have their guards up. It could be because she doesn’t want to appear to be easy. Or maybe she’s already been approached by some assholes that night.
You can loosen up any woman by just having fun.
It's important for you to come across as cool, confident and funny, but not too arrogant.
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